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Here is a collection of videos that I think are important to the election today! Enjoy!

Remember: Today is about voting for Barry Obama. Let’s do it!

• He’s pro-marriage equality!
• He’s pro-women!
• He’s pro-internet!
• He’s pro-Earth!
• And he shot that dickhead Bin Laden in the face! (Well… he didn’t really do it himself, but he did it in a super hi-tech First-person Shoot Video Game-style.
• He’s buddies with Jay-Z. (C’mon!)

I don’t really like Romney’s style… of being an asshole.

And I really don’t want a Zombie Apocalypse.

Really, people… I’ll do anything!

I’m a ladies man. Gotta love the ladies!

And last, but not least: “Don’t Sleep On BARRY O. Don’t ever sleep on Barry O.”

I was recently featured in a profile by Startup Industry.

You can read it by clicking here.

The semi-famous Death Cab for Cutie song illuminates the idea of death in love. Regardless of your thoughts on death, the potential for an afterlife and even “love” itself–I think we can all agree that “love” takes many forms.  Let me also propose that “love” takes work and choice.

It’s not an easy thing to do, and I don’t believe in “falling” in love. You “fall” into a ditch, or down a flight of stairs. Real love is something you choose to do. It’s not something you accidentally stumble upon.

I’m not trying to connect the trivial coincidence of this song kind-of-having-to-do-with-love and death, and the point I’m after.  What I want to do is talk about life and the effects of “choosing to love.”

My ankle was broken on November 19th, and I’ve suffered a little.

When I say, “a little,” I recognize that my “suffering” is a minor inconvenience–as compared to someone who can never walk, or someone who has a fatal disease. Nevertheless, I find myself looking at those who can walk with envy. I think “how they take that ability for granted.”

Dying is something that we inevitably do–not something that we choose to do (in most cases). I propose the same is true for “dark times” in one’s life. If I had the choice for my ankle to not break, you would not have seen me on crutches this Christmas, or New Year’s Eve, or JuiceBall. Yes I will heal, and you’ll see me walking, dancing and probably jumping onto, and off of, more high places.

My point is: I have to endure those consequences alone. Just like death, I will have to face my life alone–during the light times and the dark times. No other person can share my unique perception of this, or feel what I feel–high or low. That is, unless they choose to be there for me.

This idea brings me to my point. A person can’t follow another person “into the dark,” as Death Cab would suggest a kind of metaphorical shared death. A person can, however, come alongside a friend in need–when they are hurt, sad, lonely, frustrated, broken. This takes work. This requires choice. This is love.

When I was a young boy–just as loud-mouthed and offensive as I can be now, I’m sure–I used to venture into our very dark Michigan basement. I don’t know if it was for play, or to retrieve a lost toy, but I would do it from time to time. Blame it on curiosity or childhood necessity.  All I can remember is that it was scary down there. The cement floor was cold. Strange noises from the furnace and plumbing sounded like monsters lurking. On these adventures, I could not suffer the fear alone–even as the oldest son.

Emily, my sister, or sometimes my mother or brother, John, would venture down with me. They didn’t have to. They chose to. And I can still feel their hand gripping mine, clenched in a shared fear.

But what I remember most is the love, the trust and peace. Just knowing that someone will choose to help me when I’m in need.

Knowing that someone “has your back,” knowing that someone will do the work to show you  real love, can make all the difference. It’s fuel to the flame of resillience, and it will be the strength we need to push on.

My best friends in the world have shown me real love in the past months. They know who they are. What I want them to know is this:

“I will follow you into the dark… basement.”

Love,

Scott

This blogging thing is fun, but it’s been taking some diligence to keep up with it ;)

Quite a few awesome things have happened this Fall. Honestly the best thing is Fall itself.  I love it.  There’s no unbearable heat or annoying snow, and the frequent rains of Spring are a distant memory.  What I don’t understand is why I always start to care more about fitness in the Fall.  Strange right?  Perhaps it’s because the air is cooler and less sweating happens (and less sweat stays due to one’s lack of A/C at home…)

Now let’s talk about what’s going on.

• KO Cancer //  I’m honored that I have been asked to participate in the KO Cancer Celebrity Boxing event this year.  My opponent will be none other than my very good friend and STATUS CREATIVE co-founder, Jeff Barrett.  It should be a pretty good match-up.  The event is the brainchild of Frank Perez, who is presenting the event under Frank’s Knockout Fitness.  You can buy tickets to attend the November 19th event at the JW Marriott Grand Rapids by clicking right here.

• TOP 40 UNDER 40 // Now this is a crazy-huge honor for me.  My business partner and fellow GR LipDub Executive Producer, Rob Bliss, nominated me for the Grand Rapids Business Journal’s Top 40 Under 40.  They decided to recognize me and it’s so cool.  The reception event is tonight, and if you want to go click here.  You can browse through the special issue below and read about 2011’s coolest West Michigan business people Under 40: